Who Was Lot?

LOT

Genesis 19:18-20

There are many bible characters who made decisions that affected them and their family. Lot is one of the many characters. We are first introduced to Lot in Genesis 12 when God called Abram and Abram decided to move with Lot.

Genesis 12:5 (NIV)

He took his wife Sarai, his nephew Lot, all the possessions they had accumulated and the people they had acquired in Harran, and they set out for the land of Canaan, and they arrived there.

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So much can be learned from the life of Lot, however, our studies will be focused on Genesis 19:18-20 (NIV).

But Lot said to them, “No, my lords, please!  Your servant has found favor in your eyes, and you have shown great kindness to me in sparing my life. But I can’t flee to the mountains; this disaster will overtake me, and I’ll die.  Look, here is a town near enough to run to, and it is small. Let me flee to it—it is very small, isn’t it? Then my life will be spared.”

A little background of Lot’s story before we delve deeper into understanding more about Destiny Defining Decisions.

In Genesis 12, we are told that Abram left Harran with his family and Lot. Later, in Genesis 13 we are told that Abram and Lot separated. This happened because Lot, who was traveling with his uncle Abram had become very wealthy as well, with flocks and many tents. So, the land could not support both Abram and Lot’s properties and as a result, disputes broke out between the herdsmen of Abram and Lot. A decision was made and Lot chose to go eastward.

Genesis 13:11-12 (NLT)

Lot chose for himself the whole Jordan Valley to the east of them. He went there with his flocks and servants and parted company with his uncle Abram. So Abram settled in the land of Canaan, and Lot moved his tents to a place near Sodom and settled among the cities of the plain.

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Fast forward to chapter 19, apparently, Lot had moved into Sodom. We are told in Genesis 19:13 that the Lord had sent angels to destroy the land because the outcry against the place was so great that it had reached the LORD. The inhabitants of Sodom and Gomorrah willfully sinned against the Lord.

So, this is a brief summary of the life of Lot. Stay tuned as we continue our studies together.

Who Guides Your Decisions?

Psalm 119:105 tells us that God’s word is a lamp to our feet and light to our path. Meaning, if we profess God to be king over our lives, we are in other words saying that He has the final say in our lives. By this, we mean that his word guides us in both what we may consider small and big decisions. The presence of a path tells me there is a destination and that destination could be your destiny.

Can you trust and rely solely on God’s guidance today for the rest of your life? He is willing and able to guide you. He thinks well about you and his guidance is unto abundance, prosperity, soundness and all the good and perfect gifts. His guidance is not unto idolatry, compromise, mediocrity, or ordinary.

We are not told whether or not Elimelech consulted the Father for His decision making on where to take his family during the famine in Bethlehem, Judah. One thing we do know I the outcome of his decision – his death, the death of his two sons and the resulting widows.

The unchanging faithfulness of the Father overtimes prompts me to conclude that Elimelech’s decision was not of God. For the following reasons

-Elimelech was shortchanged as a result of the decision.

-His family suffered multiple irreversible loses.

-They were exposed perpetually to idol worship and lifestyle.

-He did not see or enjoy the wedding and marriage of his two sons.

-His wife Naomi and daughter-in-law returned to Bethlehem widows.

All the above-mentioned reasons in no way reflect the character of my God. Amen.

Judah vs Moab

Please, never get to a place where food becomes of such vital importance that you consciously replace praise with food. The question is this; How far will you go for the sake of food? What and who are you willing to jeopardize just because of food? Do not get me wrong. Food is good and only good for the purpose for which it serves. However, when it becomes a primary focus to a place where lives and destiny are negatively affected, I call it idolatry and call on you to take a second look at the priority/priorities you place on food.

Listen, it was because of hunger that Elimelech decided for himself and his family to leave the house of bread and the place of praise to a land of idolatry.

This may seem so absurd until I take you to the book of Luke 4:1-2. When you look at the life of Jesus, you will agree with me that he understood what food can do to a person. Before Jesus began the ministry, we are told that he was led into the wilderness by the Spirit where for 40days he was tempted by the devil and he ate nothing during this time.

One may say, oh well, Jesus was fasting so there was no need for food. But if you know his story well, you also know that he was tempted to turn stones to bread. And he had the power to do so but did not.

I emphasize so much on food because it is one aspect that a son of God needs to come to terms with. Food should never be a determining factor in your life. By this I mean, do not consult food or food should not be the foundation of a destiny-defining decision. It is a very costly route to pursue.

So, Judah vs Moab? Symbolically, Praise vs Idolatry? Which would you prefer?

I encourage you to praise your way through your famine as you rely on His promises than settle for idolatry.

Temporal Decision(s) Can Lead To Permanent Change(s)

We saw earlier the reason why we believe that Elimelech did not mean to make his stay in Moab a permanent one.

Ruth 1:6 (NIV)

When Naomi heard in Moab that the Lord had come to the aid of his people by providing food for them, she and her daughters-in-law prepared to return home from there.

Elimelek made a decision for himself and on behalf of his family to settle in Moab for a while. Perhaps, after the famine in Bethlehem, they will return. However, his decision was questionable because he left a place of potential fruitfulness to a place where idolatry was the order of the day. Moab was known for idol worship.

This was a costly decision because Elimelek did not get the chance to correct himself.

Decisions are never to be taken lightly or made casually. The outcome of any decision can bless you or leave you permanently broken.

For Elimelek, he died in Moab and his two sons died after about 10years of marriage. Elimelech did not even get a chance to see and enjoy the marriage of his sons.

Noami became a widow instantly and did not get to remarry. Ruth later got married to Boaz and we are not told about the future of Orpah.

Although not mentioned, it is a risk at your own expense to purposefully position yourself in the midst of idolatry versus when you are forcefully recruited to live in a land where idolatry is the order of the day.

That was the fate of Elimelech. He consciously decided to live in Moab.

This is significant because, as much as we see that there were physical repercussions, there could be possibilities that they could have suffered spiritually.

Here is our focus, do not allow temporal situations cause you to make temporal decisions which may lead to permanent changes be it in the physical and the spiritual.

Decisions Made In the Wilderness Matter

By wilderness here, I mean – a place of dryness, a place of lack, a place of no results, a place of unusual silence, a place of unfruitfulness, a place of waiting, a place where your patience is stretched. The house of bread (Bethlehem) at this time, was experiencing famine (hunger) and as a result, a call for decision-making was prompted. The bible says,

Ruth 1:1 (NIV)

In the days when the judges ruled, there was a famine in the land. So a man from Bethlehem in Judah, together with his wife and two sons, went to live for a while in the country of Moab.

Because of the wilderness situation, in his hometown, Elimelech made a decision for himself and on behalf of the family, to go and live/settle in Moab. It was a temporal decision and I say so because, when situations changed in Bethlehem later (Ruth 1:6), Naomi returned to Bethlehem but this time around, Elimelech was already dead. He died in Moab.

There is no doubt that Elimelech’s decision was influenced by the famine (the obvious existing conditions of Bethlehem at the time). Just maybe, if Elimelech had paused and reminded himself that although there is famine in the land, it does not permanently change the house of bread to a house of lack and perpetual hunger. Bethlehem remained Bethlehem even in a famine. Just maybe, if he reminded himself of whom his God is, he would have known that the king cares for his citizens even in a famine. Better still if he had paused and reminded himself that a place of praise (Judah) and potential fruitfulness (Ephrah) is better than a place of idolatry, he should have reconsidered his decision.

What is your wilderness situation? What does your famine look like? What is the decision or what are the decisions you have made or are planning to make as a result of the temporal famine you are experiencing? How far will you go because of the lack of food (hunger)? Elimelech made one decision as a result of famine and that decision cost his life and the life of his two sons.

Here is my encouragement to you, irrespective of your wilderness situation or famine;

-do not compromise in decision making (Elimelech left from a place of praise to a place of idolatry, because of famine). If where you are,  had once been a place of abundance, hold on to that potential, trust the Father for a change in your situation. Do not be misled by the temporal situation you see.

It is better to hold on to potential abundance and trust the promises of God than settle in an environment where idolatry is the order of the day. Moab was a land of idol worship. Amen.

Elimelech’s Identity Established

Even scripture was careful on how it associated the event that occurred when the judges ruled to the identity of Elimelech. I say so because, sand witched between the establishing of his identity in scripture, are the surrounding factors with great potential of affecting his identity and decision.

Ruth 1:1-2 (NIV)

In the days when the judges ruled, there was a famine in the land. So a man from Bethlehem in Judah, together with his wife and two sons, went to live for a while in the country of Moab.  The man’s name was Elimelek, his wife’s name was Naomi, and the names of his two sons were Mahlon and Kilion. They were Ephrathites from Bethlehem, Judah. And they went to Moab and lived there.

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Scripture was careful to not associate Elimelech’s identity with

-        The influence of the Judges rule.

-        The famine of the land.

-        The country of Moab where idol worship was the order of the day.

-        His decision to go and live in Moab with his family.

When it comes to decision making and identity; understand that societal factors press on every side of our identity but it is up to us to look at those situations in the eyes and say “yes” or “no”.

So, my question to you today is this, do you know who you are? Do you know whose you are? Have you identified the surrounding factors pressing on your identity and demanding a change that you will not otherwise make? Think about these questions, realign yourself and be determined not to compromise. Amen!

Who was Elimelech?

Family-wise, Elimelech was a husband to Naomi. A father to his two sons, Mahlon and Chilion.

They were Ephrathites from Bethlehem, Judah.

The name Elimelech in Hebrew means “My God is King”.

Ephrah means “Fruitful”.

Bethlehem means “House of Bread”.

Judah means “Praise”.

These details are very significant to the depth of understanding we are about to unveil in this teaching.

As we properly establish the identity of Elimelech, we need to understand that, although not specifically stated, the meaning of his name denotes that he honored God or at least had an understanding of the potential influence of God over a life– for his name means “My God is King”. When it comes to any and every decision made, our identity plays a major role. Your understanding of “who” you are and “whose” you are will influence the decisions you make. For Elimelech, he understood that God is his king. But when it came to making a decision, was God king over his decision making?

Another aspect of identity we see here is this – Elimelech came from a fruitful land, a house of bread and place of praise. Everything around him symbolized abundance and plenty. For the fact that it was not tangibly expressed at the time when his decision was made does not mean that it will never find expression. Amen.

These are very key points to note about the place of identity in decision making. The understanding of who you are and whose you are and the influence of the immediate environment affect decision making. When you profess God as King of your life, do you mean it? If so, how does his kingship affect your decision making? If your environment has potential of abundance and plenty, do you allow temporal lack to affect your decisions? I want you to think about it.